Family and marriage counselling
It is not unusual to have difference of opinion and discords in marriage. But it is unusual to continue with these discords and let them destroy marriage. Every human being enters marriage with own expectations, ideas, values, way of living etc. Intimacy can lead to conflicts and fortunately it can be easily resolved. Marriage counselling can enhance compatibility & help in resolving issues like :
- Frequent anger & fights
- Domestic violence
- Impending divorce
- Infidelity and extramarital relations
- Substance abuse like alcoholism
- Discord with in-laws & extended families
- Sexual problems, addiction & dissatisfaction
- Communication problem & personal space
- Problems with roles & dependency
- Financial problems
- Infertility and parenting problems
- Lack of ‘spark’ and feeling of staleness
- Lack of time or mismanagement of time
- Health Problems
- Feeling of loneliness & emptiness
- Discords over values & cultural issues
- ‘Empty Nest’ when children grow up & move out
Benefits Of counselling
- Relationship counselling helps to know each other in a better way.
- Relationship counselling helps you to clearly connect with your spouse.
- Relationship counselling helps you understand that your situation is different from others do not generalize and superimpose others problem as your own.
- Relationship counselling helps connect efficiently without fear of hurt or insult.
- Relationship counselling helps to get the clear picture of the people and situations, in the context of how they are instead of just perceiving in a self imagined way.
- Relationship counselling helps the person to discover a unique sensible meaning of the relationship.
Reconnecting to your spouse
In the beginning of every relationship we tend to focus on the positive of the other person in order to get into the relationship. We also rubbish out his or her negatives. In the back of our head we all know that there would be some problems that come up because of either persons not being a perfect man or a women.
Years or months down the line the opposite happens where we focus only on the negatives and rubbish out the positives of the other person.
These two factors destroy any genuine relationship. I am not suggesting that you do not fall head over heels in love but I would like you to see the other person in a way that you focus on their positives singularly without mixing it with their negatives.
Love-hate- kindness-anger-compassion-rejection-togetherness are the feelings which are generally mixed up which we have to separately view about our spouse.
