It is not unusual to have difference of opinion and discords in marriage. But it is unusual to continue with these discords and let them destroy marriage. Every human being enters marriage with own expectations, ideas, values, way of living etc. Intimacy can lead to conflicts and fortunately it can be easily resolved. Marriage counselling can enhance compatibility & help in resolving issues like :
In the beginning of every relationship we tend to focus on the positive of the other person in order to get into the relationship. We also rubbish out his or her negatives. In the back of our head we all know that there would be some problems that come up because of either persons not being a perfect man or a women.
Years or months down the line the opposite happens where we focus only on the negatives and rubbish out the positives of the other person.
These two factors destroy any genuine relationship. I am not suggesting that you do not fall head over heels in love but I would like you to see the other person in a way that you focus on their positives singularly without mixing it with their negatives.
Love-hate- kindness-anger-compassion-rejection-togetherness are the feelings which are generally mixed up which we have to separately view about our spouse.
We in Team Healing Hearts under the guidance of Dr. Rekha Mehta have worked on thousands of cases in India and abroad involving marriage and relationship counseling over a period of more than 10 years. It is our experience that no two cases are alike. A unique and a positive approach is required for every individual case. Relationships are like children who have to be nurtured and taken care of on a daily basis.
We specialize in healing relationships. When there is love, everything goes smoothly. However, the reality is that marriages and even relationships sometimes require a lot of adjustments.